This is your brain. This is your brain on computers.


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Since I am living at my computer more than usual this week (co-coordinating the upcoming Pennwriters Conference) I’m reminded of this fascinating interview on NPR’s Fresh Air with technology journalist Matt Richtel. His series of articles for the NYTimes  ”Your Brain On Computers” describes how multitasking on computers and digital gadgets affects the way we’re all processing information.

Ongoing bursts of stimuli are hampering our ability to focus and keeping us in an exhaustive fight-or-flight mode (“ding”— will that email/tweet/post be good or bad?). Device overload is also keeping us from learning. Digital devices deprive the brain of much-needed downtime to embed information we’ve taken in. We used to get some downtime while waiting in line or even waiting for the traffic light. But now we constantly fill any free time by checking our devices. It’s actually changing the way kids’ brains are developing.

In the few minutes I’ve been writing this, my eye keeps jumping to my mail icon, which is telling me I’ve got 5 new emails. It’s all I can do not to hop over and look. I can barely focus on this post, and I’ve got an entire conference registration packet to write.

Crap. Now my inbox just hit double-digits. Just read the articles. Try to save yourself.

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Children, put your heads on your desks

This morning, because my back was hurting, I sat in child’s pose to stretch it. It worked, but another wonderful benefit also occurred: my head quieted. Instead of racing from one must-do thought to another, I instantly felt calm. As if I was in my own little cave of comfort. Forward-bend yoga poses will do that. I’d forgotten.

Do you remember in grade school when the teacher would have us put our heads down on the desks? Maybe we were in trouble, or too noisy, or she just needed a minute when she wasn’t pestered. We’d sit there, foreheads on our forearms, noses fogging the formica tops of our little-people desks. And it worked. We quieted down. We were doing yoga and we didn’t even know it.

Let’s try it as adults, at our big-people desks. The next time we feel crazed, pressured, stressed, let’s take a minute and put our heads on our desks.

Namaste.

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AT&T “Don’t Text While Driving” Documentary

It was just over a year ago when I rear-ended the nun’s car while I was dialing, and I still keep these in my car as a reminder not to dial or text while driving. While my own story ended miraculously well (and somewhat humorously), most have not. If you text while driving, knock it off:

(via engadget)

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Uh, yeah, about that…

I keep running into friends who ask how my Master of Arts in Food Studies is going. Funny thing about grad school. It turns out that interest and enthusiasm aren’t enough. It also requires a great deal of time. Huh. I thought I’d just sort of squeeze it into my life like a lot of other things. In point of fact, “squeeze” is the entirely wrong verb for such an undertaking. Unless you don’t mind doing it and everything else in your life half-assed, something I’ve never been good with as an outcome, let alone a strategy.

And so, to make a long story short, I think this best sums up how grad school is going:

Technically, I deferred my enrollment until next fall. But the level of embarrassment is comparable.

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Happy Birthday Lucy!

Our little Lucy turns 12 today, which is pretty impressive for a bulldog — especially one with her allergy problems. It ain’t always easy being Lucy. Or living with her. Recently she’s lost her hearing, so she bark-beckons me from all corners of the house if she doesn’t know where I am or she wants a lift down the stairs (oh, she can do it herself but prefers to be treated like the queen she is). But at least I no longer have to cook for her. I’d do it all again, mind you. She’s worth it.

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If you’re thinking of remodeling your kitchen (amended)…

Okay, so my previous post was at the “Darkest before the dawn” point of the process. Now it’s done (except for painting) and I take it back. It was all worth it. Love it.  Will post a pic once we’ve painted.

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If you’re thinking of remodeling your kitchen…

Don’t.

Washing dishes in the laundry room gets really old. Really fast.

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What I did on my summer vacation

Since I’m starting school today (in Chatham’s Master of Arts in Food Studies), I thought it an appropriate time to explain what I did this summer that kept me from blogging. I co-wrote this book:

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You wouldn’t think a little 48-page book could monopolize my time so, and yet it did. But I’m happy with how it turned out, so it was worth it. Continue reading

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Ralph O. Boldt (5/25/18 – 7/27/2010)

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After a long life filled with family, professional success, travel and golf, Ralph O. Boldt passed away peacefully surrounded by loved ones in Carlsbad, CA. Ralph was a Naval Air Pilot during WWII and served for 30 years as a Trustee for the U.S. Bankruptcy Court of San Diego County. Many will miss his entrepreneurial spirit, his stories, his wit and wisdom, and the sparkle in his eye.

“He has achieved success who has lived well, laughed often and loved much; who has gained the respect of intelligent men and women and the love of little children; who has filled his niche and accomplished his task; who has left the world better than he found it; who has never lacked appreciation of earth’s beauty or failed to express it; who has looked for the best in others and given the best he had; whose life was an inspiration; and whose memory is a benediction.”

— A.J. Stanley

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Waiting.

Ralph & I My 92-year-old stepfather Ralph entered hospice care this past Thursday. For the last six months, as his body was deteriorating, he’s been saying that he’s ready to go. He’s lived an incredibly full life, with his health only beginning to fail once he hit the age of 90 (he didn’t even retire until he was 80).

When he first entered hospice, the doctor didn’t think he’d last more than a day or two. Three at most. “Should I come out?” I wondered. (I’m in Pittsburgh, my folks and two of my sisters are in San Diego.) “Wait,” was what we all determined. Ralph was mostly unconscious. I could be more of a help after. Plus, my nephew Tyler is staying with us this summer. It seemed better not to disrupt our household routine just yet. And I had said my goodbyes during my last few visits, most recently over Memorial Day.

Now we’re on Day 5. Some days Ralph is awake — rarely able to speak, but aware of the presence of my mom (even puckering up for a kiss), my sisters and brother-in-law, their kids, his grandson from D.C. Over the phone yesterday, I teased him that he’s holding court just like he’s always loved to do.

It feels strange not being there. I’m going about my regular life routine while most of my family has halted theirs and huddled together to make sure Ralph’s last moments on Earth are enveloped in love. I have to fight feeling guilty and wondering if I’m doing the wrong thing, waiting. I remind myself that there is no right and wrong in these situations. That no one is judging me. And, most importantly, that it’s not about me at all. It’s about Ralph, and he’s surrounded by a roomful of family. He is loved and cared for. And when it is his time to go, he will, knowing that I love him, too.

And so I wait.

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